Char is flying free...

Friday, October 21, 2011

14 July 2005 - 21 Oct 2011

She is pain free and she gave us her parting smile.

35 comments:

Jamie32 said...

Charmaine is in a better place now. She is that happy, cheerful and feisty girl who loved her Mother and brother so fearlessly. Over there, she running around, she is laughing at the wonder sights and she is smiling as she thinks of all the wonderful memories you as her mother has given her. She has fought the great fight, walked through the fires of pain and suffering and now it is her time to rest... not in defeat but triumph and victory...
We learnt always now always hug our children tighter and kiss them more often whenever we have the chance as we must NEVER take our time with our children for granted…
We learnt of the amazing courage of a mother who could have given up to utter despair so many time so much earlier… when you discovered how much the treatment cost… when the naysayer kept attacking you… when the treatment was failing… but in the end still put up the bravest face and took the biggest steps in her life for the love of her child… and still kept up with a blog that must have been so painful to maintain…
We learnt of a wonderful child who kept such a happy and wonderful attitude throughout her sickness and ordeal even though it must have been so difficult to do so… we will tell our children her story so whenever they face a terrible ordeal so that they know and learn what true courage and strength is.
Charmaine and your story will live forever within us and many of the parents who have learnt of this story. It was not cowardly for you to “give up” and say “I lost” today…. it was simply the right time to let her go, to say good bye so she can start her new journey in the afterlife with the blessing of her mother…
Everyone lives but not everyone truly lived. Charmaine’s courageous life while short was well lived.
Take care and now please have the courage to go on with life standing taller, prouder at all you have achieved and become. Live a life that is worthy of Charmaine so when you finally meet her when it’s your time… you too have a life that is well lived and well-loved.

Jamie32 said...

Charmaine is in a better place now. She is that happy, cheerful and feisty girl who loved her Mother and brother so fearlessly.

Over there, she running around, she is laughing at the wonder sights and she is smiling as she thinks of all the wonderful memories you as her mother has given her. She has fought the great fight, walked through the fires of pain and suffering and now it is her time to rest... not in defeat but triumph and victory...

We learnt we must always hug our children tighter and kiss them more often whenever we have the chance. We must NEVER take our time with our children for granted…

We learnt of the amazing courage of a mother who could have given up to utter despair so many time so much earlier… when you discovered how much the treatment cost… when the naysayers kept attacking you… when the treatment was failing… but in the end still put up the bravest face and took the biggest steps in her life for the love of her child… and still kept up with a blog that must have been so painful to maintain…

We learnt of a wonderful child who kept such a happy and wonderful attitude throughout her sickness and ordeal even though it must have been so difficult to do so… we will tell our children her story so whenever they face a ordeal so that they know and learn what true courage and strength is.

Charmaine and your story will live forever within us and many of the parents who have learnt of this story. It was not cowardly for you to “give up” and say “I lost” today…. it was simply the right time to let her go, to say good bye so she can start her new journey in the afterlife with the blessing of her mother…

Everyone lives but not everyone truly lived. Charmaine’s courageous life while short was well lived.

Take care and now please have the courage to go on with life standing taller, prouder at all you have achieved and become. Live a life that is worthy of Charmaine so when you finally meet her when it’s your time… you too have a life that is well lived and well-loved.

Hugh Lim said...

Cyn, you have done very well, please be very proud of yourselves. I’m able to communicate with Char before she crosses over and theses are her words for you: Thank you, I love you, take a rest and go travel, be patient and we’ll meet again someday, I’ll be your guardian angel and stay strong. She’s with god now.

eunice_sng71 said...

RIP princess Charmaine! U are a brave girl and has fight the battle bravely. You are a darling and total joy to everyone especially your mummy.

I will always remember you.

Mummy, pls take good care. Charmaine now in the good hands of God. He will take care of her and continue to bless you and your son.

Regards
Eunice

Maia said...

Cyn, my deepest condolences goes out to you and family. I have been following and praying and I just want to hug you now.

God loves her too much and loves you and family too.

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ah per said...

May peace be with the little angel.

She had loved, fought and inspired. Now it's time for her to rest.....

May peace be with the family.

Les Pommes said...

Her parting leaves us grieves that seem so endless but we know she is up in heaven, free from all pain. Her smile will always embed in our heart. She has done well, so do you cyn mummy. Hugs!

babytrex said...

Deepest condolences... Charmaine and Cynthia and Jase I have been inspired by your love...

orange said...

I just read your update and I cant help but cry. I know that there are no words that can comfort you right now so i wont try.
I believe that Char is watching over you and Jase. I pray that heavens will take good care of her and she can be a happy child as before.

mich said...

Dear Princess Char
May angels lead u to happiness once again...
Where u truly belongs...I will never forget u..
Loves, Michel

anny said...

Charmaine it was a good fight, thanks for inspiring all of us, you will always be remembered.

dreamstar said...

My deepest condolences. She will be the happy angel and her turn to look after cyn mommy and jase. Stay strong and take care!!! Hugz

affini said...

i'm heartbroken beyond words. My prayers are with you.

affini said...

I'm heartbroken beyond words. My prayers are with you.

LYL said...

Deepest condolences. Stay strong for your boy.

Nur Nishah said...

She inspire me and your family are amazing. She is indeed an amazing child. I'm sadden with the news too. Deepest condolences. Thank you for all the postings. I have been religiously following them. I never meet her although I know her uncle John. She taught me many things and I love her. She is a princess indeed. Amazing. Rest well Char, love you.

Dave said...

Hugs. know that all your friends and followers share your pain. be brave.

Me said...

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Manfred Boy said...

*hugs* Her sufferings are gone. She will be in a happier world with no pain. My condolences.

Dee.. said...

sorry Charmaine. you are a strong fighter.

Anu said...

Dear Cyn mommy,

I am sorry for your pain.. my prayers and wishes for you and your family..just wanted to let you know that you didn't lose, you won.. you stayed beside Char from the beginning to the time of letting go...nothing greater than a mother's love..

With love,
A mother too

Batagai said...

RIP :(

Batagai said...

RIP :(

Grace said...

i am so sorry.

JO said...

Cyn mom - you have done your best. be strong for jase. i am sure char has gone to a better place, a pain free one. i am just a stranger to you but my thoughts are with you. may she rest in peace. please take care.

Delia said...

My sympathies and condolences to you and your family.

*hugs*

marque said...

She came and she was loved, by one and all.

She left and she will be watch you all from above, with love.

take care

Solitary Starlight said...

Rest in peace Charmaine. You are an inspiration, a determined warrior that fight fearlessly. You'll always be remembered by all whom you touched in their lives...

Julia Lieu Shi Qi said...

Soooo Sad For Charmaine

Zoe said...

You have been so brave the past 2+ years. I could never imagine if I were in your shoes. Many a time, i teared reading your entries and I wondered how you could go on and on for so long.

I dunno what to say to make you feel better. Can only hope that time will heal your wounds, and the pictures, videos and memories of Charmaine will be a form of solace for you. Press on for Jase.

YK said...

Princess Charmaine, are a brave girl and a darling and total joy to everyone surrounding you especially your mummy. RIP, you are in a better place now.

Cyn, my deepest condolences.. do take care and have the courage to go on. God bless you!

wabbit said...

hi cynthia, please stay strong for yourself, jase and all who love you. charmaine will want you to be happy.

to beloved charmaine, thank you for your last smile. it meant alot to your mummy and all who loved you. please bless your mummy and brother from above.

Sannis Ang said...

I am sorry to say this cruel feeling at this point of time but the pain of losing your loved one is infinity.
Though the one who left you hopes you will still be happy and carry on living but the lost feeling is beyond words. Real beyond words.

Dear Cynthia, no comfort words can't makes u feel better now but please be strong. Be strong because of Charmaine. Take care.

M&M said...

Dear Cynthia,
I've only known about Char Char when she passed on, would loved to send her off but only knew about her when i read the papers on Monday. We all know that she's in a better place now and you'll meet again someday. You defintely have all the rights to grief and mourn. A quote for u from me. :)

"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love." Washington Irving

 
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