Wake Details

Friday, October 21, 2011

There will be a 3 days wake from today until Sunday.

Please bear with me as I sort out the arrangements.

VENUE is at BLK 110 Multi-Purpose Hall, Punggol Fields.
From 21 Oct 2011 to 23 Oct 2011.

It is a celebration of Charmaine's life. Do come dressed in her favorite colors - Yellow, Pink or Green or anything rainbow.

Will update more later.

I'm heartbroken but I take great comfort seeing her smile as she left. Jase isn't doing well. He is devastated and heartbroken, cried the whole night for his sister. Hence, pls help me by showering him with more love and concern as I busy myself with Char's wake.

Thank you everyone for walking the past 2 years 8 months journey with us...

Love,
Cyn mommy

PS: I love you Char Char. Kor Kor Jase is very upset and kept shouting that he loves you so much. Please remember to comfort him the same way you have comforted me. I miss you so much baby girl. Fly happily. Till we meet again.

43 comments:

ILYNN NG said...

Please stay strong for Jase. At least now we know Charmaine is pain free. My condolence to you and family.

Veron said...
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Cassandra said...

My deepest condolences to Mummy Cynthia, Jase and family.

Take care Mummy Cynthia and family.

Cassandra said...

My deepest condolences to Mummy Cynthia, Jase and family.

Please take care Mummy Cynthia and family.

Lina Ng said...

we love you char char. you are now pain free. enjoy yourself while you watch over your beloved mummy and jase korkor. you have been wonderful!

Lina Ng

WaveSurfer said...

Rest in Peace, Charmaine...

Linus said...

My condolences...

Lynette Feng said...

Im so sorry...... :'(

Charmaine's such a brave little girl.

My deepest condolences.. and please do not hesitate to reach out for help. There are many many of us who will be glad to help in any way we can. You're not alone. Okay?

Char is in a better place now, and God will take good care of her.

poonkf said...

I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I hope you and Jase will find the strength to get through this together.

Farewell, Charmaine.

mami said...

I do not know u and i just read ur blog today and i am crying buckets right now. Pls be strong mummy. Hugs. Hugs to u tightly.

Jin said...

Dear Cynthia and Jase,

I have never left any comments here but have been "stalking" and praying for Charmaine, Jase and you, and the family...

I am a mother of 2 with my daughter the same age as Charmaine...i cannot imagine having to go through what you have been through and still going through...having to witness your child's suffering and all. i am glad Charmaine is pain free now...and safe in Jesus' arms.

i am continuing to pray for healing of your broken heart and Jase. and that one day if that day is not yet here, for you to find Jesus and experience His love.

continue to stay strong. you and Jase are always remembered in my thoughts and prayers.

Regards,
Jin

littleflower said...

My Mummy,

Some things I'd like to say
but first of all to let you know
that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from Heaven
where I dwell with God above
where there's no more tears or Pain
there is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy
just because I'm out of sight
remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you
when my life on Earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me
and He said I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again,
you were missed while you were gone,
as for your dearest family
they'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly
as part of My big plan,
there's so much that we have to do
to help our mortal man.
Then God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do,
and foremost on that list of mine
is to watch and care for you.
And I will be beside you
every day and week and year,
and when you're sad,
I'm standing there
to wipe away the tear.
And when you lie in bed at night,
the days chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you
in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on Earth
and all those loving years,
because you're only human
they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry,
it does relieve the pain,
remember there would be no flowers,
unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you
of all that God has planned,
but if I were to tell you,
you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain,
though my life on Earth is o'er.
I am closer to you now
than I ever was before.
And to my very many friends,
trust God knows what is best.
I'm still not far away from you,
I'm just beyond the crest.
There are rocky roads ahead of you,
and many hills to climb,
but together we can do it
taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy
and I'd like it for you too
that as you give unto the World
so the World will give to you.
If you can help somebody
who is in sorrow or in pain,
then you can say to God at night
my day was not in vain.
And now I am contented
that my life it was worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody
who is down and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up
as on your way you go.
When you are walking
down the street
and you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind.
And when you feel the gentle breeze
or the wind upon your face,
that's me giving you a great big hug
or just a soft embrace.
And when it's time for you to go
from that body to be free,
remember you're not going
you are coming here to me,
And I will always love you
from that land way up above.
Will be in touch again soon.
P.S. God sends His Love.
Author Unknown

buds said...

Cyn mommy...

Firstly hugz for you...

Secondly, thank you for sharing the past few years of your tumultuous journey with us...

Why?

Cos, reading abt them, your strength in being the best mommy for Char & Jase... reading Char's fighting spirit and bravery has always made me appreciate at how much my family and i have.

Too often in life, we forget how blessed we are. We often read abt how so many ppl are chasing so many things. Paper chase... $$$ chase... Status chase... It never ends. But ppl forget that there are other things besides all that chasing. It's something money cannot buy and doesn't need chasing at all.

It's the gift of love... spelt as T-I-M-E. Take heart that though the promises of building new memories for Char's growing years cannot be fulfilled, you Cyn, have given Char the best gift of love... all your TIME, your unconditional love, your untiring spirit that calmed her and your prayers & loving touch that soothed her sleep.

You have given Char everything she needed in every breath that you've taken. Char is in a better place. A place where eveything's perfect.. beautiful.. peaceful.

It will take a very long time to overcome so much accumulated sadness over your ordeal but you will never forget. May all the beautiful memories you have had with Char keep you going in life... to keep you strong for yourself and Jase... just like how you have been strong for Char.

You have my love and my prayers always..

Fond Regards,

buds

Rachyl said...

RIP Feisty Princess Charmaine...

Rachyl said...

RIP Feisty Princess Charmaine

老哥 said...

May she rest in peace... and educate the world the need to help the living.

May her fight with death not going to waste.

My sincere condolence.

Kimberly's Papa said...

Rest in peace, Little Charmaine for Jesus welcomes all little children to His Kingdom and may the Lord gives strength to the family to overcome the period of grievousness and move forward with life. Though not physically here, she would be with her family in memories and spirit. She has fought well and now she would rest well under His care.

qwertrew said...

Dear Charmaine,

U have inspired us all with your bravery..We count not the tears but the moments that you have spent so preciously with your family. We will remember you in every rainbow we see, beautiful angel of God.

Jase,
Such maturity and understanding at such a tender age..you have been your sister's protector, now she will be watching over you Live your life to the fullest potential.

Cyn mummy,
Sometimes words just fail to describe the extent of how we feel. You have done 1000x over what any of us mums could do. Your strength and hope and belief has touched us all. God be with you, u r never alone.

Ivy said...

Hi Cynthia,

I am sorry for your loss. I cried when I read that Charmaine has lost her battle against neuroblastoma but I believe she is now at a better place free from pain and suffering. No matter what we say to comfort you will not take away your pain but do take care of yourself.

dailydosageoflove said...

I'm sorry for your lost. Stay strong Cynthia !

turtlexpress said...

I am sorry to hear about the pain you are going through. Rest assured she will be happy at the other side of the world and for sure, she will be watching over her dearest family.

mt196 said...

I was following this blog very closely in the past few days.. I wanted to say: Char had been truly fearless, to say the least . A modern day warrior princess. Will always remember her

DoMoFi said...

RIP ><;

alvin said...

:I hope she rest in peace .. And it's a good thing that god free her from all these sufferings .. She's a wonderful and strong girl .. Do take care alright ? :)

alvin said...

:hey there.. She's a strong and wonderful girl .. It's a good thing that god free her from all these sufferings .. May she rest in peace and she'll be watching you from heaven.. Do take care :)

bananaskins said...

Lil char will be happy up there knowing so many others loved her with all their hearts. I'm 23 & a fighting cancer patient in the HD ward now after a transplant. I'll fight on char's behalf so her pain to survive is all worthy. Rest in peace our feisty princess. Evon jiejie loves you!

Regina said...

Rest In Peace Charmaine...My Deepest Condolences to u Cyn mummy..Pls stay strong for Jase..

션 구익붕 said...

You have been a wonderful mother to both Charmaine and Jase. Stay strong.

Tong Tong said...

Please stay strong Mummy! Mummy and Charmaine have shown great courages and we are deeply touched by both of mommy and Charmaine's bravery! Jia you mummy! We are sure Charmaine will want to see her wonderful mummy to live happily forever! Please take good care! Okay? Praying for u and family......

Mummy Bean said...

It has been a strong fight and u have been a brave little warrior... Tears of heartache flow for u but I m sure u r like a little angel flying in heaven now. R.I.P dear little angel.. Take care Char Mummy..

shalynn said...

Stay strong, mummy. Charmaine will always be u n Jase kor kor, ALWAYS.

Bebe Nana said...

Stay strong mummy Cyn
Char & Jase love you most

You have shared with her what True Love is, the strongest and deepest element in all life.
Sweetheart little Char is remembered, forever. Rest in peace.

:'( HUGS

delonchew said...

Dedicated to little Charmaine:

Two years and eight months long
Through this period, you grew up strong
Disease came, ebbed your life
You stood firm, your spirit thrived
Fought the battle with a smile
Our feisty princess, that's what you are
Finally God has taken you away
On twenty first, this October day
Rest well now, dear Charmaine
No more suffering, no more pain


Delon

trishmummy said...

My deepest condolences to you and family.
I have been following your blog since the day
my daughter was diagnosed with ALL. In fact, I had seen
you and Char a few times at CDT. I cried when
I got to know that Char has lost her battle with Neuroblastoma. I totally understand how you feel.
My daughter is still going through her treatment and I wanna thank you for sharing your journey with us. I was not as strong as you but after reading what you had gone through, I regained my strength and told myself that we are not going to give up but fight the "monster" till the very end!
I pray that God will bless Char's soul and may she rest in peace. Take care of yourself Cyn and to Jase, please be strong ok? *Hugs*

bel said...

My deepest condolences.
Be strong and take care mummy Cynthia & Jase..

Rest in peace, Charmaine.

Soh Hong Wei said...

My deepest condolences.
Take great care!

Stephanie said...

Charmaine,

You give a new meaning to suffering!

You show to the world that even when things turn worst, not better, man need not submit to it.

You were always cheerful and your beautiful smile melts the heart of man.

You win your battle, you did not lost, you are forever beautiful!

I am glad you are now in heaven, where love is everywhere and the curse of the world is not there!

moods&musings said...

Cyn Mommy, my deepest condolences to you and your family.

RIP, fiesty warrior princess Charmaine. You are now with the angels.

Timothygoh said...

Cynthia and family,

My heartfelt condolences to your family and May God bless you through this.

Dora said...

Dear Jase and Aunty Cynthia,

Our deepest condolence to you and family.

Although we did not get a chance to meet Charmaine personally, we heard about her from Jase, our new friend, whom we met in KK Hospital last Thursday. Our cousin/sister's bed, Putri, was just beside Charmaine's.

We felt sorry for your lost and will pray for your strength.

Sincerely,

Edhora,Nasha,Nani and Nina

Vanessa Teo said...

Dear Cyn Mummy,

I just read your blog today but only for the month of Oct is enough to take me crying from start of the month's blog to your last entry. My heartfelt sympathies to you on Char's passing. i am sure she has fought a good fight and now resting in peace at home with our Heavenly Father where there is no pain anymore. I salute you for being strong throughout her illness, for being a single mum to bring up 2 children and for staying feisty throughout as an inspiration to all reading your blog. Indeed it has been a tiresome journey for the last 2 yrs and 8 mths for you and Char's brother Jase who has been a little angel as well. Cyn, be strong for God has a purpose for you and Jase. He will be with you in every way. God Bless and my prayers be with your family. Be comforted and take heart that your surrounding friends and family care and love you dearly. :)

lin said...

rest in peace baby girl...

miki said...

this is my first time reading this blog and felt sad abt the little girl~my condolence to you and family.
rest in peace~little brave girl

 
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